Women love to be pursued

Women love to be pursued. Not harassed, but pursued by consent. They love the feeling of being a prize that a man will quest for. It makes them feel special. So they like persistence. Too many men – afraid of rejection or anticipating failure – give up the chase long before it is time.

This is true for sex with your long time partner as it is for capturing the affections of a new partner. A woman might say goodnight and mean it, but she is still open to seduction. She’ll tell you if she’s not when you start. The most seductive thing you can do is capture her attention with words. Sometimes a fantasy story spun out of your imagination – about how the two of you meet in an unexpected encounter and how it leads to a sexual experience – can get the juices flowing. Sometimes a woman can get turned on by hearing about your encounters with other women in past lives. (Sometimes not. It depends on the degree of trust you have won. Tread lightly with this one.)

Keep a close watch on her reactions and pursue the hunt where it leads. At the same time, don’t ever back away when she wants to be the aggressor. Don’t think you’ve got to be the one on top. Learning to receive is as important as learning to give.